How to Deal With Disrespectful Children

Life can be frustrating for parents, but they often forget that it can be frustrating for their children, as well. Adults, for the most part, have learned how to manage their daily stress. Kids, on the other hand, have a harder time dealing with everyday life, and they lash out as a way of channeling their anger. If a child is acting disrespectful toward his parents, it's important for the parents to understand the source of the behavior, in order to handle it properly.

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  Remember that you are the adult and need to remain calm. Your child is learning how to negotiate, and if you are combative at this time, your child will be combative in arguments with other children and you as they grow older.

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  Set a good example in front of you children. Treat your partner with respect. This will give a visual example to the kids on how to treat others. It's very important that you and your partner show mutual respect to one another.

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  Sit your child down, and go over what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior. If your child has been getting away with disrespectful behavior in the past, explain that you have made mistakes when dealing with the situation. Make clear how you expect them to behave and what will cause them to be punished. Also, explain what type of punishment they will receive when they step out of line.

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  Be consistent. Once you have set the rules, you must follow them. You must carry through with a punishment each time your child is disrespectful.

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  Verbally praise your child when you notice them acting respectful of you and others. It's important to take notice of good behavior, as well as bad behavior.