How to Make a Boy Crazy Over You

When you're crazy about a boy, figuring out how to get his attention can be frustrating. The best way to get a boy to notice you is to work on your own self-confidence, boosting your mood with exercise and finding clothes that make you feel good. Then connect with your crush with friendly conversation and nonverbal gestures. If you score a date, show him just how wonderful you are by being the best girlfriend you can be.

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  Care for your physical appearance with good grooming and clean, well-fitting clothing. Wear what makes you feel comfortable and attractive, not what you think he likes. The more your style is your own, the more confident you'll feel. While boys may not notice whether your dress is new or your shoes are stilettos, they will notice if you carry your style with pride and self-confidence.

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  Exercise regularly, if possible, in team sports that will put you in contact with him or other teens. Exercising will boost your self-confidence by making you feel fit. Just as importantly, it will increase your energy and endorphins, allowing you to be your most energetic and positive self.

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  Talk to your crush when you get the chance, but don't overwhelm him with attention or make him feel under pressure. Try to find out if you have any mutual interests. Be honest with him about your life, what you like and who you are. Trying to change your personality to fit what you thinks he likes will only start any potential relationship on lies.

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  Make some eye contact when you talk. But avoid making continual eye contact, which might make him uncomfortable. Avoid making nervous gestures, like pressing your palms together or rubbing your hands, which make you appear less confident.

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  Ask your crush out once you feel sufficiently self-confident and are sure you really like him. Wanting to avoid possible rejection often causes people to put off asking out someone as long as possible. In reality, this only makes rejection worse by giving you more time to invest emotion in your crush. Ask him out privately, and give him time to think over your offer. State you feelings simply, avoiding overly seriously sentiments that might intimidate him. If he says he'd like to go out with you, plan a date.

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  Date your new friend slowly, building up a relationship over time. Inspire love and respect by being a kind, generous and strong partner.