How to Give Up All Rights to a Child

Making the decision to relinquish your parental rights is never easy. Whether you lack the mental capacity to care for your child or want to give up all rights to your child so a spouse or family can adopt your child, you'll need to follow the laws set forth by your state legislature. The filing process can be done with or without a lawyer; however in many cases, unless the reason is recognized under the law, a petition to relinquish parental rights will not be granted.

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  Research state laws. Not all states allow a natural parent to relinquish his parental rights, so check state code -- which you can find in your state's legislative website or library -- for the exact laws and statues in your state.

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  Complete a Termination of Parental Rights petition, which you can obtain from your county courthouse. Use the preprinted forms provided by the clerk to provide written consent to relinquish your parental rights.

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  Obtain the help of an attorney or file the petition on your own behalf. Sign and date your petition and check it for completion. Errors on a Termination of Parental Rights petition may result in delays.

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  Comply with "good cause" guidelines, which are defined by state law. Adoption is the most commonly recognized "good cause." Long-term mental illness and incapacity due to long-term alcohol and drug abuse are also recognized by the law.

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  Appear before a judge and argue your case. It is very difficult to relinquish parental rights, so understand that your petition may be denied.